Recommit to Virtue: Part 4 of 10 – Wisdom or Envy
Wisdom and envy are both about thinking and reasoning. A decision is made to engage in methodical deliberations, or to succumb to impulsive actions. The fundamental issue between these two opposing behaviors deals with the emotional cancer of comparison. The act of comparing personal contentment against the situation and circumstances of others is vanity, and envy is the outcome. The very definition of envy is discontentment. Envious people are only as satisfied as their ability to acquire the next greatest thing. Direct comparison to others means they are never content, and in this context, contentment becomes a moving target. Wisdom is the lack of envy. Wise people appreciate who they are, where they are, and what they have. This level of contentment opens them up to a sense of gratitude. Wise people desire things for their intrinsic worth, not their social power. Wise people control extreme emotions, and this allows rational thought to surface.
Wisdom is not a trait that is achieved, but rather a gift that is earned through the knowledge and experience gained while progressing through life. Wisdom flourishes in the mind of the honest soul. Freed from the anxiety associated with cognitive dissonance and the guilt connected with competing thought, integrity fosters wisdom. Integrity removes inconsistency and incongruity allowing wisdom to flourish. Wisdom is a thinking pattern developed after disciplined practice and personal evaluation. It is a deep understanding of the complex interactions of people, things, events, and situations, resulting in the individual ability to consistently choose or act in such a way as to produce optimum results. Wisdom demands emotional control gained through delayed gratification in order to minimize personal opinion and preference so that time-proven principles, knowledge, and insights can prevail. The comprehension of what is true or right gets coupled with the best possible judgment as to what action to take.
and to get understanding rather than silver!-Proverbs
Originally posted on October 5, 2011 on www.childofvirtue.blogspot.com